Still pushing on the pulling door

那些年，我們一起追的女孩

Hey guys, have you guys watched this movie? I'm gonna' say it's one of the best movies I have ever watched in the cinema. It's the best Taiwan movie I have ever watched, I'll say it's even better than Jay's Secret and yeah, I'm a big fan of Jay.

It's hard to summarize the movie but this movie features some realistic love story that's happening around us. It's a story about a boy and a girl, how they actually fall into love, how they grow up and did they get together in the end? This love story is not only touching and all, it kinda' bring all of us into high school, I'm not gonna say I miss those moments back in those days. Seriously not. But it kinda' makes me miss those type of feelings to no one in particular, just those feelings. It's a once in a lifetime experience and you can't repeat those moments anymore. So yeah..

Back to the story, which is about a boy and girl loved each other but the boy did not confessed because he was too scared to be rejected where as the girl was waiting for him to confess and in the end, the girl marries somebody else. Yes, it's fucking sad. I actually kinda hate this kind of ending. The movie is filled with Taiwan's high school culture I believe, just like Jack Neo's film where you can watch Singapore's culture through the movie. It's like watching American Pie actually, without all those porno footage I'd say. Overall, it's really good, the film is really good. The actors are good, the movie is filled with a lot of ridiculous yet funny scenes, and the lead actress is really sweet and pretty. Hehee..

After watching this movie, I realized there are a few message that the director actually wanted to  tell.

1. To whoever you really love. Please tell him/her before it's too late.

It's really sad if a potential couple couldn't get together because of something. I can imagine how sad it can be. It also tells people that maybe you can't be together with the person you really loved, eventually you'll find another "Mr/Miss Right" but whoever she is, the moment with that person is still memorable and maybe irreplaceable. I'm really grateful that I'm not in that situation. I mean if my girl happen to leave me someday, then she'll be that special person deep in my heart even though we can't be together. I am sure and I know that person won't be anyone else but her. Yeaa, she's that important to me. <3 But I know we're not gonna' let that happen right?

2. Try to work out the relationship even though it's falling apart?

There's this scene where the lead actor and actress actually got into a fight and that's the part where they got separated. It's actually a really really sad scene. Then in the end after the lead actress got married, there was this flashbacks where "if the boy actually go back to the girl and apologize, maybe they'll be together until the end." It gives me a feeling that it's saying "don't because of something small, and let it ruin your future and the chance to live with the person you love for the rest of your life."

It's a really good film that contains a lot of cuss but I'll say it's definitely worth a watch. But be prepared to get sad and please don' be too sad over it because it's just a film (an advice to myself). But thumbs up to the movie because it really made me feeeeel sooooo sad, as if I were the lead actor. Damnn.. Yeaaa, it's that good.

By the way, I think the groom in the end looks shitty and it's even sadder to see them get married. Am I too into the film? So what you think and feel about the movie? Tell me about it!